We arrived in Tempe Sunday evening and didn't feel like doing anything. So we had a nearby Lebanese restaurant, Mijana
https://mijanatempe.com/, deliver food to our hotel room. And it was pretty tasty and non-pain-triggering. I had lamb shank with rice and a lentil soup I didn't like much at the time - but ate Tuesday with Fritos and enjoyed.
Monday we visited the ASU campus, John opened an account with the ASU credit union, and we got a feel for the place and what's close by. It was very hot out. Jean left us partway through the day to go spend time with her friend Anna, who moved away from Evansville their sophomore year.
Nancy, John, and I met Rick and Pam Stivers at a Starbucks in the late afternoon. They moved from Evansville several years ago and now live just north of Phoenix and are as active in their new UU church as they were at UUCE. They looked great, and we very much enjoyed our chat with them. Plus it is nice to know that John can call on them if needed.
Another family John will be able to call on if needed is Anna's family. We met Matt, Trish, Anna, Evan, and Anna's friend John at a terrific restaurant called The Vig. There was some confusion about which one we were meeting at, but we all eventually ended up at the Arcadia Vig
http://thevig.us/menus/arcadia-dinner-menu/.
We ate outside on their patio, but it was reasonably comfortable being evening and with the misters going. I had a yummy Greek salad without tomatoes. I had to pick out the chickpeas, since I hadn't realized they were included, but had plenty of food - even took 'home' a carry out box and had some for dinner Tuesday. I sat next to Matt and thoroughly enjoyed hearing some about his work and adventures in Dubai, etc. And he very graciously ignored the fact that I called him 'Mike' instead of 'Matt.'
We had to cut our dinner somewhat short so that we could go see the apartment John planned to sublet. It was very nice, as was the young man who showed it to us. The fellow renting the apartment is currently out of the country, and it turns out his lease does not allow sublets, and that he was aware of that while trying to sublet to John. Fortunately we got all that figured out before John arrived in August. So now he'll be paying a little more for a studio apartment instead of a one-bedroom, but he'll have a place, and it will all be on the up-and-up. Much of Tuesday was spent on this.
Studio apartment has closet in living room, a divider between living room and sleeping area, sleeping area, kitchen, and bathroom. John's will probably have carpeting instead of hardwood floors.
We also visited several places John is likely to frequent while living in Tempe - Changing Hands bookstore (very wonderful), Tempe Public Library (also nice), the Game Depot (a great selection of games, and lots of spaces for playing in the store), and a comics store that also had games and room for playing.
We had lunch at a restaurant next to Changing Hands. It turned out to be one of my favorite restaurants - eighties music, relatively quiet, big screen TVs with sports but sound low or off, delicious food, good service. Mac's Broiler and Tap http://www.macsbroilerandtap.com/. The four of us each ordered something different, and with a different one of the standard sides. And we all enjoyed our food. I had Mac's Fish Sandwich, without cheese, tomato, or mayo - and with cut up fresh fruit as the side. There was probably some butter on the toasted bun, but not bad trigger-wise.
We were all pretty exhausted by the end of Tuesday, and mostly ate left-overs in our room (which had both a fridge and a microwave) for dinner. Another feature of our hotel room was that there were grab bars by the toilet, which I really appreciated. We stayed at the Country Inn and Suites just across the river from the ASU Tempe campus. Our trip home was uneventful. Got in to St. Louis around 5, stopped at Chili's in Mt. Vernon for dinner, arrived home around 10. My body was very glad to sink into the blue recliner, and to have Sirius sleeping on my lap again.